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The Strengthening Your LoveTMMarriage Workshop is a Christ-Centered Marriage Renewal Workshop for married or engaged couples looking to reconnect, repair, and re-energize their marriage.

We are so grateful for the opportunity to participate. It was a lot of emotional work but so worth the time and effort. We highly recommend this to all married couples."

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Chris and Kate Mundy

[The talks] helped us understand how to dig deeper into the emotional foundations for our behavior. The assistance from facilitators was extremely helpful!

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Sam and Nikki Forry

The time spent together in this workshop was life changing! We were given the tools to discuss tough issues, express ourselves honestly and truly listen to each other all in a safe environment.

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Charlie and Leslie McCullough

It was incredibly helpful to have the strolling professional counselors available to us!!! It got us out of ruts, out of falling into default mode, and it cleared up any confusion.

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Donald and Diane Spinelli

Please Note: This is not an overnight program.

  • On-Site Sessions (will be held at Our Lady of Bethesda Retreat Center)

    • Oct 10-11, 2026 |  Register Now

    • Feb 13-14, 2027 |  Registration coming soon

    • Oct 16-17, 2027 |  Registration coming soon

This retreat is for married couples who…

  • desire to deepen their connection
  • need help to establish good communication patterns in their marriage
  • feel distant from each other and aren’t sure why
  • want to deepen the sacramental reality of their marriage
  • are in a rut and want to find a way to start over
  • seem stuck in repeating patterns of arguing or silent distancing that cause frustration and pain
  • want to begin the process of repairing relationship hurts, even old ones, and understand how to move forward

The Strengthening Your LoveTMMarriage Workshop is a Christ-centered weekend workshop designed to nurture emotional closeness in your marriage. Facilitated by an expert team of Catholic therapists. This two-day workshop offers a road-map for addressing sensitive issues, encouraging healthy conversations framed in the Catholic faith, and provides personal guidance for married couples in the areas of forgiveness and growing in emotional intimacy.

Adapted for the Catholic couple, this workshop is based on the international best-selling books by Dr. Sue Johnson: Hold Me Tight: 7 Conversations for a Lifetime of Love and Created for Connection. These books are based in the ground-breaking Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT.) EFT employs strategies to help couples recognize and improve unhealthy patterns of communication in their marriage.

The EFT approach for couples can be broken down into seven transforming conversations that use the defining moments in love relationships to foster secure and lasting bonds These conversations aim to help couples:

  • Discover what your partner is really trying to say through his or her actions.
  • Look into the feelings underneath the immediate  reactions.
  • Repair relationship rifts and build emotional safety with one another.
  • Move into greater accessibility, responsiveness, and engagement with your partner.
  • Discover how to find and offer forgiveness.
  • Discover how emotional connection creates an environment for great sex.
  • Become mindful about maintaining loving connection throughout a lifetime.

In addition to the private conversations couples will have with one another throughout the two days, there will be  opportunities for confession, Mass, and a renewal of Marriage Vows..

This two-day workshop does not include an overnight stay. Day 1 on Saturday ends just before dinner with couples returning the following Sunday morning to continue with Day 2 of the workshop. 

The registration fee includes the workshop fee for you and your spouse, all materials, expert-guided assistance during the workshop from therapists and facilitators, plus breakfast, lunch, snacks and beverages throughout the weekend.

Our speaker team varies each session and is comprised of Catholic psychologists, therapists, and priests who will offer their expertise and experience. Therapist-consultants will be present for  the entire weekend in order to provide individual consultation for couples. Our licensed clinician presenters will also give live demonstrations of relationship building exercises. 

Past speakers include:

  • Fr. Peter Hopkins, LC, MSP
    • Program Director and Chaplain, Our Lady of Bethesda Retreat Center
  • Dr. Lisa Klewicki, Ph.D., Licensed Clinical Psychologist
    • Founder, Fountain of Life, LLC
    • Creator,  Strengthening Your Love Marriage Workshops
  • Dr. Jacob Halbert, PsyD
  • Jennifer Brinker, LCSW-CDr.
  • Dr. Kathy Musslewhite, PsyD
  • Melissa Freymann, LCPC, NCC
  • Roger Sandberg, LCPC
  • Sarah Portner, LCSW-C
  • and others...

DISCLAIMER: While this workshop is psychologically oriented it is intended to be educational and spiritual in nature and does not imply a therapeutic relationship of any kind with any of the psychologists or therapists consulting during the weekend experience. If you are interested in pursuing therapeutic services, we can provide you with a list of therapists to contact either prior to or following the workshop.

Saturday~ Day 1 8:15 am-6pm

Sunday~ Day 2 8:15am-6:30pm (Workshop ends with Mass and renewal of vows)

Your workshop fee includes delicious hot meals for both breakfast and lunch both Saturday and Sunday. Light refreshments and beverages will be provided during workshop hours.

The staff at OLB strives to provide a range of nutritious meal options for our guests.  We are confident that even those with food restrictions or particular diets will find options at each meal.  Those with food allergies can give provide that information on the registration form.